My Exceptional Inflight Experience

My Exceptional Inflight Experience

Was lunching with a couple of friends in Singapore last week when they inquired about my flight. I had the previous morning flown Emirates from Brisbane, my first experience with this airline. I found it a very positive experience – the planes appeared new, the inflight entertainment the best I’ve encountered for a 747 and the cabin service was courteous and efficient.

I then mused about my favourite airline – Singapore – and wondered what it was that made that such a standout for me. Was it the inflight entertainment? No. Unless you were on the A380, that was good, not great. The food? Yea, pretty good but again, not the thing that stood out for me. The seats? Again, pretty standard.

It was all about the service. You get on board and when you’re looking to put your bag up into a compartment, there’s always a friendly, helpful hand. With some of the others, they stand and watch you struggle. A drink soon follows and here’s my favourite – a hot towel. With some of the other airlines, the austerity drive has meant you get a moist paper towelette with your meal. Not quite the same experience.

I find the cabin crew on Singapore airlines generally top notch – friendly, helpful service always with a ready smile. I think the thing that makes the real difference for me is their level of proactivity. During what I remember to be my favourite experience, the flight attendant in my section of the cabin would walk up and down the aisle taking a few seconds to stop to check that everyone was comfortable and securely belted in place.

I remember our first exchange.

Flight Attendant (with a big warm smile): “Hi sir, how are you today? Going home?”

ME: “No, I live in Sydney. Visiting Singapore.”

FA: “Really? Lucky you. I love Sydney. Amazing city.”

ME: “Yea, I feel pretty blessed. Singapore ain’t too bad either. I love visiting.”

FA: “Well, thank you for coming on board. If there’s anything I can do to help to make your flight comfortable, please don’t hesitate to call on me”.

He’d go out of his way to get passengers blankets, pillows even toiletry kits. We were offered a drink or fruit with good regularity throughout the flight. As we approached our destination, he again walked up the aisle thanking everyone personally and checking if we’d had a good time.

When he came to me, I looked him in the eye and said, “Thanks for an EXCEPTIONAL experience. I fly often and not having flown Singapore Airlines would you mind filling in an evaluation form for me?” I said I’d be delighted to. He asked if I’d mind writing the names of all his crew members on top of the evaluation form. Of course I didn’t. I wrote them a sincere, heartfelt testimonial. He walked off with an added spring in his step. Moments later, another crew member in a suit comes up to me and says, “Mr Siow, I heard what you did for my staff – he is so happy. You taking time out to write that for him was a big deal. Thank you.”

Now, how do you think I felt about that???

One of my friends shared an experience flying on another airline to Scotland recently. About a half-hour after take-off, he heard the “ping” which he thought signalled that it was ok to unbuckle. As he left his seat for the restroom, he met with the glare of a flight attendant who said in an irritated tone “Sir, please take your seat. The sign is not on yet”. Now how about that for an experience? That airline may have had the best food, equipment, etc. but I doubt if my friend would remember that very much. Instead, what stays burned in his memory? That experience.

People never remember what you do, they remember how you make them feel”.

So contrast now the customer experience with three different airlines. Each will take me to my destination safely. Inflight equipment, the seat and food quality would range from decent to very good. And yet, the thing that I think most people remember best is always the service, the attitude and proactivity of the cabin crew.

One made me a raving fan, telling others voluntarily about my positive experience. The average one I wouldn’t talk about unless asked. The poor one I’d also talk about voluntarily, except for all the wrong reasons.

And what in my opinion is a key contributor to the different levels of service? Whilst it ultimately boils down to the attitudes, the personal pride and emotional intelligence of each individual flight attendant, I think it also has very much to do with the leadership style of the particular crew manager and his or her ability to lead and creates a world-class team “culture”. A leader that keeps her team on the ball with the goal of creating an exceptional experience, one who supports and acknowledges them and fosters pride sets the culture of the team.

Remember that the level of your customer’s experience in your business rarely exceeds that of your staff. Treat your staff right, inspire them about your team’s mission, create a sense of pride in being part of an exceptional team and your customers will feel it, and love you for it. And in turn become the best raving ambassadors for your business.

To your ongoing success!

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Andrew Davey

Andrew is a Master Trainer and Executive Coach known for helping organisations shift from transactional leadership to emotionally intelligent cultures. A Tony Robbins Mastery graduate, Certified Life Coach, and MBA holder, he empowers leaders to unlock clarity, resilience, and purpose.

Dominic Siow

Co-founder and EQ Alchemist at EQ Strategist, Dom has inspired leaders and transformed cultures across 260+ organisations in 10 countries. He is the author of the Amazon best-seller *What’s GREAT About This?* and host of the *Inspiring Leadership* podcast.

Sue Siow

Co-founder and Director of EQ Strategist, Sue is known for her calm presence, strategic clarity, and deep empathy. With a background in information systems and advanced leadership training, she has supported leadership journeys for global clients across Asia-Pacific.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist based in Perth, delivering experiential leadership and wellbeing programs. With expertise in resilience, work-life integration, and communication, she helps leaders sustain performance while leading with care, clarity, and balance.

Vivien Ong

Vivien is a seasoned facilitator and coach with 20+ years of corporate leadership experience. She specialises in mindful leadership, communication, and team dynamics, creating vibrant, high-trust learning environments where individuals step into leadership with clarity and voice.

Dale White

Dale is a high-impact leadership and performance coach with 19+ years of experience across government, corporate, and education. Known for his energy and practical insight, he helps leaders align strengths with strategy to drive sustainable, high-performance outcomes.

Vivien Ong

Vivien Ong is a seasoned leadership facilitator, coach, and trainer known for helping professionals grow into self-aware, courageous and impactful leaders. With over 20 years of corporate experience in sectors such as banking, telecommunications, BPO, and media,

Vivien brings a strategic yet deeply human lens to leadership development. At EQ Strategist, she facilitates programmes in mindful leadership, communication, psychological safety and team dynamics. Celebrated for her vibrant facilitation style, she combines energy, empathy, and practical insight to spark meaningful dialogue where learning and growth happen. She also mentors youth through a social enterprise and serves in the leadership team at the

Contact Centre Association of Singapore, where she advocates for better leadership and service standards. Her work is rooted in the belief that better leadership builds a better world. Through storytelling, behavioural tools, and reflective practice, she helps individuals step into leadership with presence, clarity, and voice. Vivien’s clients value her ability to create high-trust environments where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to lead from within.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist who brings warmth, depth, and structure to leadership and wellbeing programmes. At EQ Strategist, she delivers experiential learning focused on resilience, work-life integration, and effective communication. Her academic background includes a Master of Clinical Psychology and certifications in Extended DISC, NLP, and EFT. Caroline’s clients appreciate her thoughtful approach to coaching and her ability to simplify complex psychological principles into actionable steps. With professional experience in five countries, she brings a culturally attuned perspective to her facilitation. Her goal is to help individuals and teams sustain performance without burning out—leading with insight, care, and clarity.

Dale White

“Real transformation doesn’t come from more information—it comes from aligned action.”

Dale White is a high-impact, outcome-focused leadership and performance coach, known for his energy, strategy and ability to drive real change. With 19+ years of experience helping professionals perform at their highest potential & a background in business, behavioural psychology, and high-performance coaching, Dale supports leaders to build clarity, confidence, and resilience in both work and life. At EQ Strategist, Dale facilitates training & coaching that blend behavioural insight, personal mastery, and practical implementation. His sessions are known for being dynamic, personalised, and results-focused – ensuring participants take real-world action that sticks. Dale holds degrees in Business and Exercise Science, and certifications in NLP, PCM, and Robbins Leadership Mastery. Whether supporting government departments, corporate leaders, guiding frontline teams or values-driven founders, Dale’s mission is to help people cut through theory and lead with purpose.

Jack Rankin

Jack Rankin is a high-impact trainer, executive coach, and culture catalyst with over 1,500 workshops delivered globally. His client portfolio includes leading names across government, finance, insurance, construction, and retail. At EQ Strategist, Jack helps organisations strengthen leadership capability, stakeholder alignment, and communication excellence. He is known for making learning engaging and actionable—tailoring each session to drive meaningful outcomes. His past clients include Singapore Airlines, Rio Tinto, Visa Westfield, Nike, Schneider Electric, and City of Parramatta Council. Jack is a Tony Robbins Leadership Mastery graduate and serves on the Synergistic Results Leadership team. Through each programme, he inspires individuals to elevate how they speak, lead, and influence.

Sue Siow

With a heart for people and a sharp strategic lens, Sue Siow co-founded EQ Strategist to help individuals and organisations flourish from the inside out. As Operations Director, she ensures the seamless delivery of high-impact programs while supporting clients with insight, empathy, and practical wisdom.

In addition to leading operations and client experience, Sue is also a skilled Facilitator and Participant Coach—contributing to larger workshops through 1-on-1 coaching, small group facilitation, and experiential team-building segments. Her calm, grounding presence invites reflection, trust, and personal growth.

With a background in Information Systems and advanced training from Tony Robbins’ Mastery University, Sue has supported programs across Singapore, Australia, Malaysia, China, and Indonesia for clients including Sembcorp, Esker, DBS Bank, Changi Airport Group, FedEx, Yokogawa, and AirAsia.

Dominic Siow

“Be the light or the mirror that reflects it.”

These words define Dominic Siow’s approach to life and leadership. As a globally recognised leadership facilitator, keynote speaker, coach, and co-founder of EQ Strategist, Dom is known for helping people reconnect with their purpose, lead with heart, and create cultures where everyone can thrive.

Drawing on senior leadership experience from IBM and Grapevine Technologies, he has spent the past two decades empowering over 260 organisations across 10 countries—from multinational corporations to public sector agencies and values-driven startups.

Dom’s facilitation style is equal parts insight, empathy, and inspiration. Whether leading a leadership retreat, designing a culture transformation program, or coaching executives through complexity, he helps people become not just better leaders, but better human beings.

He is the author of the Amazon bestselling book What’s GREAT About This?—a guide to building resilience through disruption—and the host of the Inspiring Leadership Podcast, where he shares real stories of growth and grit.

For Dom, leadership is not about titles. It’s about helping others find their light—and reflecting it back so they can shine.

Andrew Davey

At EQ Strategist, Andrew Davey is known for helping organisations move from transactional leadership to purposeful, emotionally intelligent cultures. As a master trainer and trusted coach, he brings a rare blend of business insight, coaching expertise, and facilitation mastery. Andrew’s clients span industries from logistics and software to government and education. He is a Tony Robbins Mastery University graduate, a Certified Life Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, and MBA holder. His mission is to empower leaders to unlock clarity, strengthen resilience, and lead inspired teams that drive results. Andrew delivers programs that are practical, energising, and deeply human—enabling sustained transformation at both the individual and organisational level.