A Leader’s True Measure
A leader is not defined by what people do when you’re around, but by what they do when you’re not.
During our recent trip to Cambodia, Sue and I had the privilege of visiting the House of Joy in Siem Reap — an orphanage offering a refuge of love and opportunity for children who have lost their parents or whose families are too impoverished to raise them.
A Personal Connection
I have a soft spot for orphans. My late sister, Clare, was one.
She was left on the footsteps of a convent as an infant. At age 12, she was adopted by my mum, who taught at that very convent.
Clare lived a tough life, never asked for much, and yet left an indelible mark — playing a key role in raising at least nine children, including my three brothers and me. Her life taught me that you don’t have to be famous to have a lasting impact.
Meeting Sister Samantha
The House of Joy is home to about 25 children, from just a few months old to age five. Sister Samantha, who runs the home, welcomed us warmly and gave us a tour. We were greeted with song by children radiating curiosity, love, and boundless energy.
When I asked what brought her to Siem Reap, she told me she had spent over a decade at another home in Papua New Guinea. Then, one day, a letter came from her superiors asking her to serve at the House of Joy. Without hesitation, she packed up and left — total commitment to the cause.
A Mission with Clarity
Sister Samantha explained that the home cares for children until they turn five, preparing them to stand out in their growth and intellect so schools and social enterprises will gladly accept them. At that age, they either return to their families (if possible) or move to other caring institutions.
When I asked how we could support, her reply surprised me:
“I have no expectations. What you feel inspired to do is up to you. Even a hug to one of these children would mean the world to them.”
Quiet Legacies
I left feeling humbled and inspired by the tireless love and sacrifice of these Sisters, whose quiet work changes lives every day. You won’t see them in headlines, yet their impact is immeasurable.
It all began with Mother Teresa — who, while teaching in Calcutta, felt a deep calling to serve “the poorest of the poor.” In 1950, she founded the Missionaries of Charity, dedicated to serving the sick, poor, and dying.
Today, her vision lives on — in places like the House of Joy, in the devotion of people like Sister Samantha, and in the bright eyes of children whose futures are filled with hope. And for me, it also lives on in the memory of my sister Clare — proof that love and quiet leadership can leave a legacy that shapes generations. With Sister Samantha, fellow carers, and the children of the House of Joy in Siem Reap — a place where love, curiosity, and hope shine brightly.
💬 Question to Readers: Who are the quiet heroes in your life whose leadership and service have inspired you most?
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