Are you Managing by Principle or Procedure?

Are you Managing by Principle or Procedure

During my tenure at IBM, we were reminded often by Lou Gerster to “manage by principle, not procedure”. Travelling back from Kuala Lumpur to Sydney recently, I had an experience which reminded me of the value of this leadership trait.

I’m a fan of budget airlines. For someone with retired parents in Malaysia on humble pensions, I feel a deep sense of gratitude hearing their social network and them speak about the exciting experiences travelling to exotic places on such airlines. As an entrepreneur working on a lean budget, I am a frequent patron. For international and business related travel, I value the ability to stretch my legs out and have space to work on my notebook. And so, forking out an extra $30.00 or so for one of the “premium” seats with “extra leg-room” is standard procedure for me for such trips.

On a previous occasion however, I had an experience where the “premium” seat I booked online in fact led to what turned out to be a “standard” seat. And so I was particularly diligent at my most recent flight to insist during check-in for confirmation that the seat I had booked and paid for, was indeed one with extra leg-room. Assured indeed that it was, you can imagine my disappointment on boarding to find that I had, yet again, been allocated a “standard” seat.

Given the plane was still boarding passengers, I decided to wait till everyone was seated before requesting a seat change. Spying quite a few “premium” seats vacant, I was sure this wouldn’t be an issue. As the pilot announced his customary welcome, I flagged down one of the flight attendants and politely explained my situation. Her retort was a Godzilla like scowl – “YOU should have told me before the doors were shut. I would have been able to verify with the ground staff that your request is genuine! Our policy is that we cannot allow passengers to change seats once the doors have closed. Let me come back to you when the plane has taken off.”

Unperturbed, as soon as the all clear was given for us to turn on our electronic devices, I powered up my laptop to retrieve my original travel invoice which would verify that the boarding pass, which clearly indicated that I had an “extra leg-room upgrade” was not something I might have forged. No Godzilla. I flagged down one of her colleagues. Explained my dilemma. Same scowl. Same explanation – “We have standard procedure…” What indeed has gone wrong with the world????? Such mistrust! I’m sure there would have been “people crying wolf” in the past but surely they could not refute the evidence on hand.

Through my insistence that I spoke to her “supervisor”, Godzilla returned. “Patiently” she explained to me that she could understand my situation and yet, that the airline’s policy was quite firm and unambiguous. And “imagine if I were to allow you to change seats at this moment, what would the other passengers think? Imagine the anarchy! We certainly cannot allow passengers who have not paid for the upgrade to think they could benefit from such.”

Bulldog emerged. If there were no such seats available, I would have dealt with it with a letter on arrival. But clearly, this was not the case. Bulldog to Godzilla, “This isn’t personal and I understand you have a procedure to follow. But put yourself in my shoes and listen to what you are saying to me. What your client is hearing is either “I don’t trust you” or “I don’t trust our system which produces such boarding passes or invoices.” Neither of which impresses your client. In fact, your client has already figured the first few paragraphs of an abusive letter to your CEO and taking his business elsewhere. Now imagine for a moment that you were right, and that indeed your client was untrustworthy, indeed a fraudulent genius who was into forging electronic invoices and boarding passes, what is the most it could cost you and your airline? Nothing, assuming you were able to articulate clearly to the other passengers that the move was made due to a mistake on the part of the airline.

But what if you were wrong, and that your client HAD indeed paid for the extra leg-room, was allocated a seat that wasn’t such despite reassurance from your check-in staff and that you held your stand because of “company procedure” when you indeed had many such seats vacant? What would be the ultimate consequence?”

I hope you get my drift.

As a professional, when working in a place that seems to be full of “standard operating procedures” that NEED to be followed, find out why these procedures are in place to start off with. Make sure you understand your organisation’s values, which will typically relate to things like “Client Orientation”, “Respect for the Individual”, “Service Excellence”, “Integrity”, “Flexibility” and your organisation’s mission and make sure these come BEFORE procedures. Procedures are there to serve, and often they’re based on good lessons learnt from previous mistakes. But conduct yourself strictly with procedures and you run the risk of turning yourself into a “machine” with no room to apply what makes sense and is intuitively right. And the people you work with “get it”. Principles, values on the other hand are timeless. Disregard them and the consequences are predictable.

Managers, are you managing your business and training your team by procedure or values and principles? When was the last time you had a good frank discussion with your team about your team’s Values and Mission, delved into them deeply to get to the heart of the matter. And focused on empowering your team with the attributes that you value most from them – their intuition, sense of fair play, client and outcomes orientation and their ability to uphold your reputation and credibility!

Make this day the very best one you so deserve!

Carpe Diem!

Kindest,

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Andrew Davey

Andrew is a Master Trainer and Executive Coach known for helping organisations shift from transactional leadership to emotionally intelligent cultures. A Tony Robbins Mastery graduate, Certified Life Coach, and MBA holder, he empowers leaders to unlock clarity, resilience, and purpose.

Dominic Siow

Co-founder and EQ Alchemist at EQ Strategist, Dom has inspired leaders and transformed cultures across 260+ organisations in 10 countries. He is the author of the Amazon best-seller *What’s GREAT About This?* and host of the *Inspiring Leadership* podcast.

Sue Siow

Co-founder and Director of EQ Strategist, Sue is known for her calm presence, strategic clarity, and deep empathy. With a background in information systems and advanced leadership training, she has supported leadership journeys for global clients across Asia-Pacific.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist based in Perth, delivering experiential leadership and wellbeing programs. With expertise in resilience, work-life integration, and communication, she helps leaders sustain performance while leading with care, clarity, and balance.

Vivien Ong

Vivien is a seasoned facilitator and coach with 20+ years of corporate leadership experience. She specialises in mindful leadership, communication, and team dynamics, creating vibrant, high-trust learning environments where individuals step into leadership with clarity and voice.

Dale White

Dale is a high-impact leadership and performance coach with 19+ years of experience across government, corporate, and education. Known for his energy and practical insight, he helps leaders align strengths with strategy to drive sustainable, high-performance outcomes.

Vivien Ong

Vivien Ong is a seasoned leadership facilitator, coach, and trainer known for helping professionals grow into self-aware, courageous and impactful leaders. With over 20 years of corporate experience in sectors such as banking, telecommunications, BPO, and media,

Vivien brings a strategic yet deeply human lens to leadership development. At EQ Strategist, she facilitates programmes in mindful leadership, communication, psychological safety and team dynamics. Celebrated for her vibrant facilitation style, she combines energy, empathy, and practical insight to spark meaningful dialogue where learning and growth happen. She also mentors youth through a social enterprise and serves in the leadership team at the

Contact Centre Association of Singapore, where she advocates for better leadership and service standards. Her work is rooted in the belief that better leadership builds a better world. Through storytelling, behavioural tools, and reflective practice, she helps individuals step into leadership with presence, clarity, and voice. Vivien’s clients value her ability to create high-trust environments where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to lead from within.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist who brings warmth, depth, and structure to leadership and wellbeing programmes. At EQ Strategist, she delivers experiential learning focused on resilience, work-life integration, and effective communication. Her academic background includes a Master of Clinical Psychology and certifications in Extended DISC, NLP, and EFT. Caroline’s clients appreciate her thoughtful approach to coaching and her ability to simplify complex psychological principles into actionable steps. With professional experience in five countries, she brings a culturally attuned perspective to her facilitation. Her goal is to help individuals and teams sustain performance without burning out—leading with insight, care, and clarity.

Dale White

“Real transformation doesn’t come from more information—it comes from aligned action.”

Dale White is a high-impact, outcome-focused leadership and performance coach, known for his energy, strategy and ability to drive real change. With 19+ years of experience helping professionals perform at their highest potential & a background in business, behavioural psychology, and high-performance coaching, Dale supports leaders to build clarity, confidence, and resilience in both work and life. At EQ Strategist, Dale facilitates training & coaching that blend behavioural insight, personal mastery, and practical implementation. His sessions are known for being dynamic, personalised, and results-focused – ensuring participants take real-world action that sticks. Dale holds degrees in Business and Exercise Science, and certifications in NLP, PCM, and Robbins Leadership Mastery. Whether supporting government departments, corporate leaders, guiding frontline teams or values-driven founders, Dale’s mission is to help people cut through theory and lead with purpose.

Jack Rankin

Jack Rankin is a high-impact trainer, executive coach, and culture catalyst with over 1,500 workshops delivered globally. His client portfolio includes leading names across government, finance, insurance, construction, and retail. At EQ Strategist, Jack helps organisations strengthen leadership capability, stakeholder alignment, and communication excellence. He is known for making learning engaging and actionable—tailoring each session to drive meaningful outcomes. His past clients include Singapore Airlines, Rio Tinto, Visa Westfield, Nike, Schneider Electric, and City of Parramatta Council. Jack is a Tony Robbins Leadership Mastery graduate and serves on the Synergistic Results Leadership team. Through each programme, he inspires individuals to elevate how they speak, lead, and influence.

Sue Siow

With a heart for people and a sharp strategic lens, Sue Siow co-founded EQ Strategist to help individuals and organisations flourish from the inside out. As Operations Director, she ensures the seamless delivery of high-impact programs while supporting clients with insight, empathy, and practical wisdom.

In addition to leading operations and client experience, Sue is also a skilled Facilitator and Participant Coach—contributing to larger workshops through 1-on-1 coaching, small group facilitation, and experiential team-building segments. Her calm, grounding presence invites reflection, trust, and personal growth.

With a background in Information Systems and advanced training from Tony Robbins’ Mastery University, Sue has supported programs across Singapore, Australia, Malaysia, China, and Indonesia for clients including Sembcorp, Esker, DBS Bank, Changi Airport Group, FedEx, Yokogawa, and AirAsia.

Dominic Siow

“Be the light or the mirror that reflects it.”

These words define Dominic Siow’s approach to life and leadership. As a globally recognised leadership facilitator, keynote speaker, coach, and co-founder of EQ Strategist, Dom is known for helping people reconnect with their purpose, lead with heart, and create cultures where everyone can thrive.

Drawing on senior leadership experience from IBM and Grapevine Technologies, he has spent the past two decades empowering over 260 organisations across 10 countries—from multinational corporations to public sector agencies and values-driven startups.

Dom’s facilitation style is equal parts insight, empathy, and inspiration. Whether leading a leadership retreat, designing a culture transformation program, or coaching executives through complexity, he helps people become not just better leaders, but better human beings.

He is the author of the Amazon bestselling book What’s GREAT About This?—a guide to building resilience through disruption—and the host of the Inspiring Leadership Podcast, where he shares real stories of growth and grit.

For Dom, leadership is not about titles. It’s about helping others find their light—and reflecting it back so they can shine.

Andrew Davey

At EQ Strategist, Andrew Davey is known for helping organisations move from transactional leadership to purposeful, emotionally intelligent cultures. As a master trainer and trusted coach, he brings a rare blend of business insight, coaching expertise, and facilitation mastery. Andrew’s clients span industries from logistics and software to government and education. He is a Tony Robbins Mastery University graduate, a Certified Life Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, and MBA holder. His mission is to empower leaders to unlock clarity, strengthen resilience, and lead inspired teams that drive results. Andrew delivers programs that are practical, energising, and deeply human—enabling sustained transformation at both the individual and organisational level.