2 Popular Sayings Every Organisation Needs to BAN

Imagine moving to a new organisation or role. You see how some things could be done better and share this with your colleagues. Only to be told “that’s how it’s always done around here”. Sounds familiar? And how did you feel when that happened? If you’re anything like many others we’ve interviewed through our journey of helping organisations create innovative, growth-oriented cultures for the past 17 years, soon enough it’ll start to feel like you’re butting heads against a brick wall. And then one day, you just think “why bother????”. And right at that moment, one of the most valuable opportunities you were brought into the organisation to create – to offer a fresh, unbiased take on how things could be done better – diminishes into the ether. Another victim of Groupthink.

In my opinion, the thinking “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” kills creativity and growth and  does not belong in the lexicon of any organisation serious about remaining relevant and competitive. Change is the only constant and the surest path to obsolescence is a culture that isn’t constantly challenging the status quo and open to fresh ideas.

 
 
 
 
 
 

A few days ago, I had the absolute pleasure of catching up with an old friend, Mike Scutt. Mike was my New South Wales State Open badminton coach back in the day when I was a badminton nut and the badminton hall used to be my second home. Mike’s from the land of the long white cloud, a nation significantly more renowned for its All Blacks rugby team than for its’ badminton. Badminton in my motherland Malaysia, on the other hand was like cricket is to Indians and soccer to Brazilians. And so when Mike came to coach our team, whilst I was open-minded, I frankly wondered if there was much I’d learn.

The fact he wasn’t an exceptional player made me doubt his credentials even more. This was before I came to realise that a great player does not make a great coach and similarly, that one can be an exceptional coach without having first been a great player. And without disrespect to the many wonderful coaches I’ve had in Malaysia, Mike’s coaching really helped take my maturity in the sport to another level.

Mike was an amazing people manager. He was also an astute student of the game. And he also had a great deal of self-confidence and dedication to helping his charges find and fulfill more of their highest potential.

 
 
 

I remember our first team meeting. He pulled us together and simply shared with us that he was working with players of great talent and that he wasn’t sure if he had anything he could do to contribute to our growth. And that we should just continue to train and work hard and we’d do well. In short, “nothing was broken”.

For the first couple of sessions, all he did was to observe, ask a few questions and got us to play a few matches. He also took lots of notes. Looking back, I can see now he was doing a lot of rapport building and “seeking first to understand”, important pre-requisites to being a great influencer.  Then one day, he started a session by asking us to warm up by doing some “shadow badminton”. After observing me going through my routine for about 5 minutes, he came up to me and asked, “Dom, what are you doing?”. I said, “Shadow badminton, like you’d asked me to”. He said “At that pace? And for that duration?”

I said that that was how I’d always been trained to do it. Since my youth, my coaches had gotten us to do shadow badminton that at times went for as long as 20 minutes, which can frankly feel like death through a thousand cuts! Well, not quite as bad as doing squat walks around a 400 meter park – that was simply brutal – but I digress. The conventional wisdom with my Malaysian coaches was “no pain, no gain”. It was all about endurance. These drills were often excruciating, and boring! And because we knew we had to do it for that duration, we often simply went through the motions and at a pace that would help us “last the distance”. He shared with me that the average badminton rally went for 12 seconds and reminded me that the sport of competitive badminton was about short sharp bursts of explosive speed. And that instead of one 20-minute routine, perhaps it made more sense to simulate real life tournament conditions and do e.g. 20 explosive 20-second drills and level 20 intensity.

????????????? Now why hadn’t I thought of that????

I’ve come to learn that most of us “sleep walk” through life and work. Yes, I was guilty of chasing success the old “bum up, heads down” way, ticking off one to-do list after another and never making enough time to just think and to work on instead of in the business. To reflect on how and why we do things and question if there could be a better way to achieve an outcome. Which is why training your people in your organisation to have a growth-mindset, to be open-minded about learning, to invite feedback on blind spots and to create a psychologically safe space for people to speak up and challenge the norm is critical to your team not just staying relevant but being even better and more competitive each and every day!

Mike made an indelible impact on my game in that one year. I understood the sport so much better, became even more effective and efficient in my training and most importantly, he thought me to think more deeply about how and why I did what I did and to be hungry to seek out better ways. He turned me from a player to a student of the sport. And it’s carried over to my life and made it all the better and even more enriching.

So my question for you today. What are you and your organisation doing to create a culture with a growth-mindset and that cultivates innovation, challenges norms and always seeks to do even better? Love to hear your thoughts. Please do share it below. And as always, make it the most extraordinary day you deserve.

Andrew Davey

Andrew is a Master Trainer and Executive Coach known for helping organisations shift from transactional leadership to emotionally intelligent cultures. A Tony Robbins Mastery graduate, Certified Life Coach, and MBA holder, he empowers leaders to unlock clarity, resilience, and purpose.

Dominic Siow

Co-founder and EQ Alchemist at EQ Strategist, Dom has inspired leaders and transformed cultures across 260+ organisations in 10 countries. He is the author of the Amazon best-seller *What’s GREAT About This?* and host of the *Inspiring Leadership* podcast.

Sue Siow

Co-founder and Director of EQ Strategist, Sue is known for her calm presence, strategic clarity, and deep empathy. With a background in information systems and advanced leadership training, she has supported leadership journeys for global clients across Asia-Pacific.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist based in Perth, delivering experiential leadership and wellbeing programs. With expertise in resilience, work-life integration, and communication, she helps leaders sustain performance while leading with care, clarity, and balance.

Vivien Ong

Vivien is a seasoned facilitator and coach with 20+ years of corporate leadership experience. She specialises in mindful leadership, communication, and team dynamics, creating vibrant, high-trust learning environments where individuals step into leadership with clarity and voice.

Dale White

Dale is a high-impact leadership and performance coach with 19+ years of experience across government, corporate, and education. Known for his energy and practical insight, he helps leaders align strengths with strategy to drive sustainable, high-performance outcomes.

Vivien Ong

Vivien Ong is a seasoned leadership facilitator, coach, and trainer known for helping professionals grow into self-aware, courageous and impactful leaders. With over 20 years of corporate experience in sectors such as banking, telecommunications, BPO, and media,

Vivien brings a strategic yet deeply human lens to leadership development. At EQ Strategist, she facilitates programmes in mindful leadership, communication, psychological safety and team dynamics. Celebrated for her vibrant facilitation style, she combines energy, empathy, and practical insight to spark meaningful dialogue where learning and growth happen. She also mentors youth through a social enterprise and serves in the leadership team at the

Contact Centre Association of Singapore, where she advocates for better leadership and service standards. Her work is rooted in the belief that better leadership builds a better world. Through storytelling, behavioural tools, and reflective practice, she helps individuals step into leadership with presence, clarity, and voice. Vivien’s clients value her ability to create high-trust environments where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to lead from within.

Caroline Crosbie

Caroline is a sought-after trainer and psychologist who brings warmth, depth, and structure to leadership and wellbeing programmes. At EQ Strategist, she delivers experiential learning focused on resilience, work-life integration, and effective communication. Her academic background includes a Master of Clinical Psychology and certifications in Extended DISC, NLP, and EFT. Caroline’s clients appreciate her thoughtful approach to coaching and her ability to simplify complex psychological principles into actionable steps. With professional experience in five countries, she brings a culturally attuned perspective to her facilitation. Her goal is to help individuals and teams sustain performance without burning out—leading with insight, care, and clarity.

Dale White

“Real transformation doesn’t come from more information—it comes from aligned action.”

Dale White is a high-impact, outcome-focused leadership and performance coach, known for his energy, strategy and ability to drive real change. With 19+ years of experience helping professionals perform at their highest potential & a background in business, behavioural psychology, and high-performance coaching, Dale supports leaders to build clarity, confidence, and resilience in both work and life. At EQ Strategist, Dale facilitates training & coaching that blend behavioural insight, personal mastery, and practical implementation. His sessions are known for being dynamic, personalised, and results-focused – ensuring participants take real-world action that sticks. Dale holds degrees in Business and Exercise Science, and certifications in NLP, PCM, and Robbins Leadership Mastery. Whether supporting government departments, corporate leaders, guiding frontline teams or values-driven founders, Dale’s mission is to help people cut through theory and lead with purpose.

Jack Rankin

Jack Rankin is a high-impact trainer, executive coach, and culture catalyst with over 1,500 workshops delivered globally. His client portfolio includes leading names across government, finance, insurance, construction, and retail. At EQ Strategist, Jack helps organisations strengthen leadership capability, stakeholder alignment, and communication excellence. He is known for making learning engaging and actionable—tailoring each session to drive meaningful outcomes. His past clients include Singapore Airlines, Rio Tinto, Visa Westfield, Nike, Schneider Electric, and City of Parramatta Council. Jack is a Tony Robbins Leadership Mastery graduate and serves on the Synergistic Results Leadership team. Through each programme, he inspires individuals to elevate how they speak, lead, and influence.

Sue Siow

With a heart for people and a sharp strategic lens, Sue Siow co-founded EQ Strategist to help individuals and organisations flourish from the inside out. As Operations Director, she ensures the seamless delivery of high-impact programs while supporting clients with insight, empathy, and practical wisdom.

In addition to leading operations and client experience, Sue is also a skilled Facilitator and Participant Coach—contributing to larger workshops through 1-on-1 coaching, small group facilitation, and experiential team-building segments. Her calm, grounding presence invites reflection, trust, and personal growth.

With a background in Information Systems and advanced training from Tony Robbins’ Mastery University, Sue has supported programs across Singapore, Australia, Malaysia, China, and Indonesia for clients including Sembcorp, Esker, DBS Bank, Changi Airport Group, FedEx, Yokogawa, and AirAsia.

Dominic Siow

“Be the light or the mirror that reflects it.”

These words define Dominic Siow’s approach to life and leadership. As a globally recognised leadership facilitator, keynote speaker, coach, and co-founder of EQ Strategist, Dom is known for helping people reconnect with their purpose, lead with heart, and create cultures where everyone can thrive.

Drawing on senior leadership experience from IBM and Grapevine Technologies, he has spent the past two decades empowering over 260 organisations across 10 countries—from multinational corporations to public sector agencies and values-driven startups.

Dom’s facilitation style is equal parts insight, empathy, and inspiration. Whether leading a leadership retreat, designing a culture transformation program, or coaching executives through complexity, he helps people become not just better leaders, but better human beings.

He is the author of the Amazon bestselling book What’s GREAT About This?—a guide to building resilience through disruption—and the host of the Inspiring Leadership Podcast, where he shares real stories of growth and grit.

For Dom, leadership is not about titles. It’s about helping others find their light—and reflecting it back so they can shine.

Andrew Davey

At EQ Strategist, Andrew Davey is known for helping organisations move from transactional leadership to purposeful, emotionally intelligent cultures. As a master trainer and trusted coach, he brings a rare blend of business insight, coaching expertise, and facilitation mastery. Andrew’s clients span industries from logistics and software to government and education. He is a Tony Robbins Mastery University graduate, a Certified Life Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, and MBA holder. His mission is to empower leaders to unlock clarity, strengthen resilience, and lead inspired teams that drive results. Andrew delivers programs that are practical, energising, and deeply human—enabling sustained transformation at both the individual and organisational level.